Sara and Ben (names have been changed) are a happily married, millennial couple in an open relationship. We met on our first day of college - I was determined to break out of my nerdy shell and sit next to the cutest person in the room. He ended up being super quiet and thus I was convinced that he hated me, but in actuality he was just nervous (and a soft-spoken person). He knew that he was my first boyfriend (I was 18), and he didn't want me to feel like I was missing out on dating.
We reached out to Sara to share some insight into their journey to polyamory, the ground rules they've set, and what it's like to date other people - and maybe even fall in love with other people - when you're already married to someone you love. We talked about nonmonogamy in theory for a long time (two years? In hindsight, I feel like this gave me time to get used to the idea and for us to build a solid foundation.
We started talking about being monogamish (which later evolved into full-blown polyamory, haha) about two years into our relationship. He brought up the idea of him being comfortable with me casually dating other people early on in our relationship.
I am a bit more of a rule follower, but definitely liberal and nonjudgmental.
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